Sex........

Ok so I have to take a page out of Loverboy's book and start a thread about S.T.D's and A.I.D.S. Many times we (forum regulars ) laugh and make jokes about sex rarely discussing what may come along with it . Well I'm not going to attack anyone and my purpose for this is to bring it to light to a healthy discussion. So that males and females alike get a sense of what each other thinks about the subject . Please feel free to add questions to the post . I will start with one question.

Ok unmarried females have you ever been asked by a partner to have intercourse without protection ? if so please discuss ?

I have and strongly defied I was puzzled and very distraught his reason for asking me to do it because he loved me .lol wtf right , well I counteracted this problem by purchasing protection myself to avoid that dilema .

[JustBlessed]

yes...someone did..... and its becuzz he didnt lik rubbers....... ...lol

[Licia_Ginger]

yes sum1 did and he wanted to do it because he wanted to be closer to me, plz i was like buddie strap dat s**t up or u aint gettin none lol

but honestly AIDS and STDs aint nuttin to play wit, did a seminar wit the girls from the Ranfurly and Elizabeth Estates Home were dis lady came in and he husband who she was datin from high school gave her AIDS and she found out wen she was havin dere 2nd kid, dat really opened my eyes alot to all those things really happenin to innocent ppl, cuz AIDS dont hav a face so gatta wrap dat up cuz if ya give it to me i ga kill ya *no joke*

[kaos]

yea and wat happen 2 all dem young girls dat gettin babies, dont they b thinkin bout aids? the same way they get pregnant they can catch an std, wtf is dat

Well Kaos my opinionated answer to your question would have to be - I'm sure the consequences are on their minds its a matter of caring and self respect for yourself .Also being constantly aware of the benifits and consequences that come along with being sexually active . Those young girls that are having kids their stories are just so tragic - but what was similar in most stories is deception ,being pressured by a boyfriend . Men also and boys need to have respect themselves cause they play a major role in this as well . What I can't get over sometimes why are little kids having sex ,an orgasm isn't a appropriate happiness for children . Happiness at a young age should be experience an innocent life before adult without having to worry about bills . A preparation for the many pressures of adulthood .

I would really like the single teen mothers to give some insight to your question , not to be judged but inform , and some of the guys that ask that stupid bleeping question to give some insight as well.

Originally Posted by Licia_Ginger

yes sum1 did and he wanted to do it because he wanted to be closer to me, plz i was like buddie strap dat s**t up or u aint gettin none lol

but honestly AIDS and STDs aint nuttin to play wit, did a seminar wit the girls from the Ranfurly and Elizabeth Estates Home were dis lady came in and he husband who she was datin from high school gave her AIDS and she found out wen she was havin dere 2nd kid, dat really opened my eyes alot to all those things really happenin to innocent ppl, cuz AIDS dont hav a face so gatta wrap dat up cuz if ya give it to me i ga kill ya *no joke*

Licia - this example just confirm my trust issues with people . There are so many people living double lives here and I'm not talking just seprate personalities - but one legal wife and a common law wife(sweetheart) and both wives with kids for the same man . The first thought that will come to my mind if someone ever sexually cheats on me now will be to get a blood test . People talk about if its wrong to cheat its bleeping dangerous playing russian roulette with your privates - do that with your own not mine . Thanks for sharing that Licia.

[Licia_Ginger]

Originally Posted by sweetkisses

Licia - this example just confirm my trust issues with people . There are so many people living double lives here and I'm not talking just seprate personalities - but one legal wife and a common law wife(sweetheart) and both wives with kids for the same man . The first thought that will come to my mind if someone ever sexually cheats on me now will be to get a blood test . People talk about if its wrong to cheat its bleeping dangerous playing russian roulette with your privates - do that with your own not mine . Thanks for sharing that Licia.

some ppl wud ask dere spouses to get tested but den dere reactions is be "why u wan me get tested u think im cheatin on ya?" mmmmm yea plus i wan no ur status, ppl are afraid to ask dere partners to go get tested plus some of dem is put all type s**t in dere head to say to make dem forget about gettin tested. AIDS is a serious thing, im in a youth AIDS program and it wud be pretty sad for me to go out dere and dont practice wat i preach. I've seen to much ppl on da AIDS Ward, babies straight up to adults just dyin, and it scares me so i dont no how ppl cud let a stranger just hav unprotected sex wit dem and dont no dere sexual background.

[ainsley]

Originally Posted by Licia_Ginger

some ppl wud ask dere spouses to get tested but den dere reactions is be "why u wan me get tested u think im cheatin on ya?" mmmmm yea plus i wan no ur status, ppl are afraid to ask dere partners to go get tested plus some of dem is put all type s**t in dere head to say to make dem forget about gettin tested. AIDS is a serious thing, im in a youth AIDS program and it wud be pretty sad for me to go out dere and dont practice wat i preach. I've seen to much ppl on da AIDS Ward, babies straight up to adults just dyin, and it scares me so i dont no how ppl cud let a stranger just hav unprotected sex wit dem and dont no dere sexual background.

yeah dnt mind ppl bout they dnt like condoms if so that means they havent been using them and mite have Aids

Condoms prevent transmission of:

HIV
Gonorrhea
Chlamydia
Trichomoniasis

condom protection from these other S.TD.S are only effective when the source of infection is covered :
Herpes
Syphilis
Chancroid

[loverboy12]

I am glad You're talking about protection. A condom is a device most commonly used during sexual intercourse. It is put on a man's erect penis and physically blocks ejaculated semen from entering the body of a sexual partner. Condoms are used to prevent pregnancy and transmission of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs—such as gonorrhea, syphilis, and HIV). Because condoms are waterproof, elastic, and durable, they are also used in a variety of secondary applications. These range from creating waterproof microphones to protecting rifle barrels from clogging.

Most condoms are made from latex, but some are made from other materials. A female condom is also available. As a method of contraception, male condoms have the advantage of being inexpensive, easy to use, having few side-effects, and of offering protection against sexually transmitted diseases.[1][2] With proper knowledge and application technique—and use at every act of intercourse—users of male.

Condoms may also prevent the Following diseases:
1- Human Papillomavirus
2- Herpes Simplex Virus-2 also known as Genital Herpes, in both Men and Women.
3- And Many more.


Sex is including: Kisses, Floreplay, Intercourse, Oral sex, and Anal sex. They all need to have protection while during any of them.

[Licia_Ginger]

Originally Posted by loverboy12

I am glad You're talking about protection. A condom is a device most commonly used during sexual intercourse. It is put on a man's erect penis and physically blocks ejaculated semen from entering the body of a sexual partner. Condoms are used to prevent pregnancy and transmission of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs—such as gonorrhea, syphilis, and HIV). Because condoms are waterproof, elastic, and durable, they are also used in a variety of secondary applications. These range from creating waterproof microphones to protecting rifle barrels from clogging.

Most condoms are made from latex, but some are made from other materials. A female condom is also available. As a method of contraception, male condoms have the advantage of being inexpensive, easy to use, having few side-effects, and of offering protection against sexually transmitted diseases.[1][2] With proper knowledge and application technique—and use at every act of intercourse—users of male.

Condoms may also prevent the Following diseases:
1- Human Papillomavirus
2- Herpes Simplex Virus-2 also known as Genital Herpes, in both Men and Women.
3- And Many more.


Sex is including: Kisses, Floreplay, Intercourse, Oral sex, and Anal sex. They all need to have protection while during any of them.

i no intercourse most likely starts of wit kissin and involves kissin *if ya lucky* but kissin is not sex, if dat is da case i had sex at da age of 3

[loverboy12]

I Was Talking About French Kisses, Where Two People Exchange Body Fluids. It's Not The Kiss, It's The Fluid That Exchanging Among You, Two. You Well Know What I Am Talking About. To Stop Std's And Hiv; We Must Limit How Many Sex Partners We Have. The Bootty Calls Must Stop, The Revenge Must Stop.

[Licia_Ginger]

mmmm u said kiss, u didnt specify wat type kiss nah dats like tellin da police u see a robber jump in a impala, knowin dat dere are a hundreds of dem on dis island, and da only way u can catch anything from kissin is if u hav an open cut or sore in or around ur mouth, and da person saliva goes into it, otha den dat u cant catch it from kissin, so if u hav u hav those, be scared

Loverboy has done it again . I think you are just overflowing with information and sometimes its best to be clear and precise about the things you say - if your going to claim they are facts . I would think there is a population of people that do not read about sexual health issues and sometimes when we joke about sex too often its easy to forget the risk that come along with it.

So loverboy I guess I am asking you to please be bit more responsible , don't want to start any sexual health myths .okay

[Ex]

ive gone raw before. its not something that I actively seek to do, but say wha... **** happens... i does get tested erry 6 months just as a precaution.