WHITE WOMEN OPINION OF BLACK WOMEN...A MUST READ THIS TO THE END.... A White Woman's Opinion
of Black Women White women's opinion of black women & a brother's
response. Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep! Thumbs up to
this black man. Enjoy. It seems that an article was written to Sister 2
Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black
men. I'm so glad she got what she asked for (and more) !!! Dear
Jamie:I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male
readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black
male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot
of Black female's attitudes about our relationship.My man decided he
wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none.
As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too
argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much
excess baggage.Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was
constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and
give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being
with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some
changes.I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when
we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about
why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left
his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen,
the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl
Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr.,
Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley
Snipes...I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and
that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White
women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and
learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm
wrong, Black men, let me know. Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA
RESPONSE Dear Jamie:I would like to respond to the letter written by A
Disgusted White Girl.Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old
black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities
in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business
Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently
purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of
successful black men.I will not use my precious time to slander white
people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date
white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men
dated white women was because they were considered easy.The black
girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very
strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to.
Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who
would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the
white girls.Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white
women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men,
because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become
intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our
woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive
nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men
look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control.I have talked to
numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to
control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record
straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all
successful black men date white women.Brothers like Ahmad Rashad,
Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair
Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris
Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are
numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or
secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert
DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.I just don't want a disgusted
white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white
that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian
Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies
of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat
and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history!It
was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food.
It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It
was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during
slavery. It is the black woman that had to endure watching their
fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail.
Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and
being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!It is because of
the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I
could never date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the
outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact
that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love
them.Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black
women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their
integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their
willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination
to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain
and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women.I honestly
believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more
so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you
continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so
proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale
skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with
unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more
voluptuous?I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting
to have what the black woman has.BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a
docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a
call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone
that can be a good wife and mother to my children.Someone who can be
my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul
mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and
CANNOT fit the bill.No offense taken, none given. Signed, Black
Royalty!!!
