Okay, Maybe I'm blowing this out of proportion but awhile ago I was dating this guy that had a problem with me paying for our dates....first of all most of the time the dates were my Idea and second of all I didn't mind paying at all, even if I didn't have to. So I guess maybe I'm weird or something but for me I like my relationships to be an equal experience for both parties even if that means paying the bill after supper or even going to an event I wouldn't want to attend.It's a foreign concept for me when my friends tell me how their boyfriends pay for everything and they seem to be okay with giving them the responsibility..XoX Monie XoX