if a man wants you, nothing can keep him away, if he doesn;t want you, nothing can make him stay, stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. allow your intuition{or spirit} to save u from heartache. stop trying to change yourslef for a relationship thats not meant to be, slower is better,never live your life for a man b4 u find what makes you truely happy. if a relationship ends bcuz the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no ! you can't be friends be friends, A friend would never mistreat a friend. dont settle if you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is, dont stay bcuz u think it will get better, you'll be mad at yourself for staying a year later for staying when things are not better,the only person you can control in a relationship is you,avoid men that has a bunch of children by a bunch of other women, he didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why do u think he will be any different to you ?always have your own set of friends seperate from his.maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you, if something bothers you, speak up, never let a man know everything, he will use it against u later, you cannot change a mans behaviour, change comes from within,dont ever make him feel like he is more important than you are, even if he has more education, or in a better job, never let him feel like some kind of god,he is a man , nothing more or nothing less,never let a man define who you are ,never borrow someone elses man, Oh lord!! if he cheated with you, he will cheat on you,a man will only tret you the way u allow him to treat you all men are not dogs, you should not be the one doing all the bending.....comprimise is a two way street. dating is fun, even if he doesn't turn out to be mr right. make him miss you sometimes....when a man always know where you are , and your always readily available for him -he takes it for granted.
they say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them , a day to love them and an entire lifetime to 4get them,
ohhhhh... and this was written by a man, so take a hint, feel free to let me know what u think about my blog,
