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Content: [QUOTE=Jahzara;14060][FONT="Century Gothic"][SIZE="3"][COLOR="Purple"]Here's my situation: my new bf is going thru some stress right now and I would like some advice as to what to do. From my past experiences and my knowledge (or what I think is my knowledge of men) is that when a man is stressed they usually appreciate space more than anything else. Guys pls help me understand what to do because since he'd told me what happened I did the usual and called and said hey how u doin bla bla bla..showing the concern. Well understandably he wasn't his usual self. Now I started to take it personal with the short answers and sulkiness but i didnt wanna add to the burden by complaining about it. so our last conversation (sat. nite) he said he'd call me back and I wanted to see if he would, so sunday I didnt call or text at all. Then this morning (mon) I get a text that it looks like I'm playing the 'u dont call me I wont call u game' (cus we'd once went a week without talking all due to a misunderstanding of what I meant and how he took it lol) when in actuality I wanted to see just how interested he was. Guys am I right to get offended that he's a bit sulky? Cus I'm thinking if I'm calling and trying to be supportive why am I getting a cold shoulder? THEN when I don't bother it's like I'm not checking? What do u advise that I do? I do wanna be there for him but I don't wanna be a nag either!:confused:[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/QUOTE]men play to a differnet sound if the stress is about cash run men do not deal with this good i lost 2 friend cause of this sht do not buy or pay for anything and what ever u do do not offer cash.if it about anything else u good leave him alone most dogs like us take somtimes to lic are wounds and like ur letter (UR THREAD) don't talk this much .put a cork in it and i mean play gay listen don't talk.dam u make me talk long good look.
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